Thursday, October 9, 2008

Uppity Duppity Little Chicken

That's what Mom always said to Geoff and me upon waking in the mornings. Today, Mom seems to be waking. Her doctor has decreased her anti-anxiety medication and her pain meds, so that she can wake up and ace her breathing tests. Apparently, when you're under a blanket of narcotics, it's hard to follow commands. Go figure. Anyway, today she seems much more alert. Ironically, she seems to be much more calm, also. I think she's waking up enough where she can better handle what's going on, and she is much receptive to calming words. This morning, when Geoff and I went to see her, her eyes were clear and I saw HER. I asked her if she wanted to watch TV, and she nodded her head. When I told her I was holding her hand, she squeezed. She's still a little "in and out" of the fog, but she is becoming more alert.

The put her in the gurney chair again today. (Yesterday, she stayed in it for more than an hour.) Heather and I are heading back to the hospital soon. Geoff headed into SF for the day to get some work done and I am heading back to Indy this afternoon for the weekend. I very much need my home, my husband, my cat for a little "mental health" break. And, at the same time, I don't like leaving mom. All the nurses tell us to take care of ourselves... that the hard part is still to come, so I'll go home, make sure the house is still standing (I haven't been home in over a month now) and recharge my batteries.

love,
jennifer

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great update!! It sounds like she is coming out of it. The meds will take a little time to wear off. They have helped her heal internally now it is the external that will heal. It is a little at a time, but this is great. Tell your mom if she did not want to meet me in Phoenix on that Monday, the 22nd of September, she could have just told me. Just kidding. Now there is an address to send cards, soon probably flowers or balloons can be sent. It continues to get better. Jennifer, I hope you are feeling well and your back is better. Geoff, all of you have been very strong for your mom. I salute all of you. Give her hugs.
Rick.

Claudia said...

What good news! Just getting out of the bed has to make everyone feel better! Sheryl is one of the strongest women I have ever known. She is so blessed to have you kids! I loved the wedding pics you posted. Geoff, your wife is beautiful. Jennifer, you look amazing and so much like your Mom. We are praying for all of you. We love you very much.
Claudia & Norman