I stayed at the hospital with Mom last night. She slept really well, which was great to see. I feel like I'm learning, somewhat, what it must be like to have a child. As tired as I was last night, I just lay there, watching her to make sure she was okay, sometimes completely overwhelmed by what is really happening. I thought about the last time we shared a room... the night before the accident at Geoff's apartment. We slept in the same bed, and, every morning, she would wake up and ask me "did I snorkel?" (her cute term for snoring). Last night, I was relieved to hear her snorkeling, which normally drives me nuts, since I'm such a light sleeper. Each time she moved, I wanted to get up and help her, but I let her do what she could on her own. But it was hard to watch her - how much effort it takes her just to roll over. To see her right hand come across the bed, searching for something to grab to pull herself onto her side, although it still lacks the strength to make a tight grip. The simplest things - rolling over, brushing teeth, scratching her face - require so much effort or someone else to do it for her. As I celebrate her small victories and her progress, it is heart wrenching to see my mom - such a vibrant, feisty, active woman - in this shape.
Today, Heather and I are working on finding someone to come do Mom's hair. She's been asking for a cut ever since she got to rehab, and I know it will make her feel better to get a bit of pampering, too.
love,
jennifer
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Jennifer, what a night. Yes, many times parents watch kids when they sleep and wonder about them. You know so well what your mom is like and that she will be back to that. It sounds like she is doing better. Every little achievement is a cause for celebration and a victory. As strong as she is, she will come back to herself. I believe that, and I have know her a short time. Tell her hi and give her hugs. There are still prayers. Thanks.
Rick
Hey Guys...I'm continually amazed at how strong your mother is, and how strong you three are. The raffle is going pretty well, and I'll have an update on that here soon. As far as pampering, I wanted to send your mom some luxury soaps and some lip balms and things...I just didn't know when the right time would be? Just let me know if and when it's ok, and I'll send her some comfort type things that'll maybe make things just a wee bit nicer. Love you all and tell Sheryl that we are praying for her daily, and often.
Laurel
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